it’s only been like a few days total and you’re starting to make me feel really uncomfortable so just stop.?? nobody gets that close with people in such a short time, it’s odd and way too soon and just makes you seem clingy idk. why are guys such friggin babies.
Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.
Olivia Bee and Andrew Lyman for Yen magazine part 2 by Marisa Chafetz
then let him leave
you are terrifying
and strange and beautiful
something not everyone knows how to love